Learn how to love

Learn how to love Learn how to love For men and women different emotional needs, who are usually unaware of these differences, as a result, they do not inherently know how to support each other, men usually give in relationships what men want, while women are given to women, each wrongly assumed that the same needs of other and desires, with the result that both ends of dissatisfaction and discontent. Men and women both feel that he gives and gives but does not receive the other hand, the fact is that both love and giving, but the manner in which suits him and not the manner in which suit the other party. For example, think of women as a love When you ask many questions and expressions of interest in sponsorship, this can be annoying and boring for a man, and begin to feel that governed the area and wished to be here and her reaction to be confused and perhaps in exasperation, they would have received such kind of support it will be happy and grateful. Their efforts to be nice and provide the necessary support for her partner to be ignored at best or at worst disturbing. In a similar fashion, men think they are lovers, but the way in which the crossing of love may make women feel that their confidence is weak and it is not supported, for example when you get upset women, it is believed that he is loving and supportive when it sheds the comments detract from the importance of their problems, might say (not you, but is not that important, do not think the subject, Honey you) or perhaps have been completely ignored, it gave them a large area to calm down, think that the support that it is insignificant, and unloved and ignored. Twelve types of love That each of the six men and women love the unique needs of all are equally important. Men need in the first place to the trust, acceptance, appreciation, and admiration, and approval, and encouragement. Women need primarily to the care, understanding, respect, and loyalty, and certification, and reassurance. And the types of love for both sexes to realize what does not feel that sometimes our loved even though we give him a lot - but unfortunately, our own - as we can improve our relationship with the opposite sex. Primary love needs for women and men These are the different types of love and the opposite in men and women: * Requires women to receive: 1. Care. 2. Understanding. 3. Respect. 4. Fidelity. 5. Ratification. 6. Reassurance. * Men need to receive: 1. Confidence. 2. Acceptance. 3. Appreciation. 4. Admiration. 5. Acclaim. 6. Alchdja. Basic understanding of your needs We all need to twelve types of love the former, but men need to be six classes of first-class and women in need of six varieties of love first and foremost, this does not mean they do not need the rest of the items. When men want to give the items needed by the love of women in the first place must be imbued with love of his needs, and the same thing for women when we want to give the appropriate types of love of man must be the basic needs for love saturated. Men become receptive to fully appreciate and love the six items required by the women in the first place (care - understanding - respect - Fidelity - certification - reassurance) When the needs of the initial saturated first. And in a manner similar to the needs of women (confidence - acceptance - Rating - admiration - approvingly - encouraging), but by the fact that values ​​the value of these items and put them right must be a saturation of the primary needs first. An understanding of the primary types of love that needs to your partner is a great secret to improve relations with him. If I remembered that men are different from women, however, to remember Taatzkri and accept that men's primary love needs are different. Easy for women to give and what you need to forget that her beloved might need to something else. And in a manner similar to men tend to focus on their needs and stray from the fact that the type of love that they need not always appropriate to their partner or Tdaemia beloved. 1. Is the need to care which needs to be confidence When the attention of men and women interested in the feelings of the heart Boukerha feel loved and cared for, and then succeed in satisfying the primary needs first. Start is a natural trust more. When trust becomes more open and receptive. When the position of women and Tqublia openness towards men, is that it is reliable, and trust in men means the belief that his best effort and he wanted a good partner, and when the reaction of women reveals a positive belief in the capacity of man and his intentions, the first primary love needs satisfied. It would be in a more care and attention to the feelings and needs. 2. Understanding is needed and needed acceptance When men listen to a woman expresses her feelings without a ruling, but the sympathy and good and continue to listen, to feel heard and understood, in the sense that he listens intently and with compassion and without making judgments. And whenever the need for women to be heard and understood is saturated, the more easy for them to give their man acceptance that it needs. When you receive the women and men love without trying to change that is hostile. This does not mean that women believe that full, but indicated that it was not trying to improve it, and that it trusts its own improvements on it, when men feel that it is hostile to it very easy to listen and to give understanding of the needs and deserves. 3. Is the need to respect it needs to estimate When men respond to women in a way that recognizes and gives preference to their rights, and desires, and needs, and feel respected. When the act, taking into account the ideas and feelings that they would certainly respectable, and expressions of respect to the concrete and material such as a bouquet of flowers and going out together for dinner are essential for satisfying third need primary love of women and when they feel respected be easy for them very much to give their man the appreciation it deserves. When women get to recognize the benefit and value of personal efforts and actions of men, is estimated that the right of, and appreciation is a natural reaction to being supported, and when the man is estimated that the effort did not go in vain, therefore, encouraged to give more. When the man is estimated to be automatically enabled, and a catalyst to respect his partner more. 4. Is the need to require a dedication to the admiration When a man gives priority to the needs of women and vows to proudly support and satisfaction, the fourth needs love to have a primary is well, flourish when women feel that they are fond of and had his girl erotic, and men can satisfy their need for love in this way when they make their feelings and needs are more important than other concerns - such as work The study and entertainment .. When women feel that it occupies first place in his life then and like it very easily. Just as women need to feel that the dedication of men, the man has a primary need to feel the admiration of women. And admiration is that men look at it Bakbar and cheers and applause and pride. The men feel that they are amazed when a fan and was fascinated by the unique characteristics or talents, such as the exclamation point that some or all of these qualities: humor, strength and persistence, integrity, honesty and love and kindness, love and courage and beauty and intelligence, understanding and other .. When the man feels that she admires feel safe to the point where it threatens his wife and himself to wander out and finds them. 5. Is the need to ratify It needs the approval of While not opposed to men on women's feelings and desires, or argue that rather than accept and validate, leads to the fact that women feel they truly loved the fact that the fifth was the primary needs satisfied. The position of men Certifying affirms the right of women to feel what it is (note that it could ratify the point of view and you have another point of view) while the men learn how to make the women know that they have this position Certifying. It certainly will get approval, which needs to be major. Every man wants to be in the heart hero of his wife or knight. Indication that he had succeeded in experiments is desirable. The position of women Alasthassani recognize goodness in men and reflects the satisfaction of the destruction. (Remember to make approval of a man who does not always agreed with) and the position Alasthassani recognize or focus on the good reasons behind what he is doing. When approval is needed to be easy for him to endorse her feelings. 6. Is needed is reassurance needed to encourage When a man constantly and it is interesting to understand and respect and validate the feelings of his partner and finds them to be the primary needs well Alttmini position of comfort to tell women that they always loved. And in a manner similar to man essentially needs to be encouraged by the women. And the promotional position of women to express their confidence in his ability and his courage gives hope to the man. When the position of women reflects the confidence and acceptance and appreciation and admiration and approbation he encourages men to show its full potential and feeling that he is being encouraged to submit stimulated nice reassurance is needed.